Thursday, 30 January 2014

Reasons why women seek extramarital affairs

A new poll has shed light on why women look for love and passion outside their marriages, asserting that wearing socks and talking dirty during sex are two of the many reasons. 

Victoriamilan.com, a site that urges infidelity, surveyed 4000 women about their partner's bad habits that turn them off. The findings showed that little things like stealing the sheets at night, and pleasuring himself over her were among the top reasons why women cheat.

Also, checking the smartphone in the bed again and again, lack of foreplay and creativity between the sheets also featured in the results.

NEWS Link:- 
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Reasons-why-women-seek-extramarital-affairs/articleshow/26913721.cms?intenttarget=no

रेप का झूठा मामला दर्ज कराया, खुद फंसी महिला

जागरण संवाददाता, नई दिल्ली । रुपयों के लेन-देन को लेकर एक व्यक्ति के खिलाफ रेप का झूठा मामला दर्ज कराने के मामले में कड़कड़डूमा कोर्ट स्थित एसीएमएम कुलदीप नारायण ने न्यू अशोक नगर थाना की पुलिस को निर्देश दिया कि वह आरोपी महिला के खिलाफ मुकदमा दर्ज करे और कार्रवाई के बाद रिपोर्ट पेश करे।
सुशील कुमार ने अधिवक्ता आरके चौधरी के माध्यम से अदालत में याचिका दायर की थी कि उससे परिचित महिला मधु ने 10 हजार रुपये उधार लिए थे। रुपये वापस मांगने पर उसने 19 फरवरी को अपने घर पर बुलाया। वहां महिला ने उसका मोबाइल व पांच हजार रुपये छीन उसे कमरे में बंद कर दिया। उसने रेप का आरोप लगा पुलिस में शिकायत की। इसके बाद पुलिस के समक्ष महिला ने समझौता करते हुए 40 हजार रुपये ऐंठ लिए। उसने मोबाइल भी नहीं लौटाया। बाद में उसने उसके खिलाफ रेप का मामला दर्ज करा दिया।
सूचना के अधिकार के तहत उसने महिला के संबंध में पूर्वी जिला डीसीपी से जानकारी मांगी। इसमें उसे पता चला कि मधु ने छह-सात लोगों पर भी अलग-अलग थानों में मुकदमे दर्ज करा रखे हैं। ये तथ्य उन्होंने अदालत के समक्ष रखे। इस पर मधु ने सुशील के अधिवक्ता आरके चौधरी को भी सबक सिखाने की धमकी दी। याचिकाकर्ता ने अदालत को बताया कि इसके बाद मधु ने उसकी पैरवी कर रहे वकील पर भी तिलक मार्ग थाने में रेप का मामला दर्ज करा दिया। लिहाजा, इस मामले में आरोपी महिला पर लूटपाट करने और झूठा मुकदमा दर्ज कराने के संबंध में उचित कार्रवाई की जाए।
NEWS Link:- http://www.jagran.com/news/national-woman-register-against-rape-case-10253230.html

Beware of making IrBM a law !!

Voice of Sanity is resounding and downs the din of shrill noises of perpetual 'Wolf', where there is none. A man's first relation is with a woman who caries him for 9 months, cares for him, makes him learn how to walk- 'a mother', then there are sisters around, whose presence teaches him his duties towards protecting his sisters courtesy yearly 'Rakhi'.
Regrettably, this man is made to cut-off his relationship with his mother, the day he gets married, a part of him dies, he is rendered rootless, mostly the man agrees thinking, that come what may, my mother is going to remain my mother, let me try to accommodate the desire of my spouse. Thereafter, the man is under the perpetual test of "How much more you can sacrifice for my happiness."
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I have come across marriages falling apart after even 20 years because there comes a time, when man can take no more pressure. One may read the interview of husband of Ms Kiran Bedi to draw a conclusion. The woman Biased Laws which label a man as Criminal in eyes of law, just because he was born as a man, is dividing the society, overnight engineers, doctors become criminals and have to share cold floor along with murderers and rapists in Jails.
Dr Helen Smith is a Forensic Psychologist who has authored "Men on Strike". She speaks the truth. American Men have gone on strike from marriage. And they have a good reason. And soon it shall happen in India too, may be that is what the Government of the day wants, which was so vociferously attacking SC Judgment against Gay Laws. The sponsoring thought behind enacting of such women biased laws is to turn this country into a country of 'Gays and Lesbians' as a solution to all the problems of society...more population..more mouths to feed..less per capita land..sky rocketing inflation..What a joke!!!
Over Eons....Men have fought to protect the honour of their women. ... a sad commentary on state of affairs. New IrBM law will empower wives to such an extent that they will start having their way in complete defiance of family norms.
"Be a silent spectator to my affairs, otherwise firstly I will send you behind bars by just writing '5' lines of dowry harassment. Secondly I will walk away with all your property including your ancestral property and defame your family name too. Within '5' years of IrBM you can see that Indian Culture would have been shredded for the sake of western culture.
The western countries are afraid of highest number of English speaking Indian youths in the World....of whose origins 1% population is contributing 9% of engineers and doctors in American Society. Only way the progress of such a nation can be thwarted is by striking at its root of strength i.e. "Family System" . 

The requests, protests against such a law have been put into dustbin. Not even God can save this country's downfall now. Those of you who have chosen to keep quite against making IrBM a Law, thinking that you are a goody goody soul and no soul will ever harm you. I hope you remain protected, but I have doubts, serious doubts.
- See more at: http://www.merinews.com/article/beware-of-making-irbm-a-law-/15893010.shtml#sthash.cinKFqwY.9iNUig5s.dpuf

Tejpal’s bail plea: Act ‘consensual’ since colleague a ‘modern woman’


Goa court rejects bail application, says victim’s persona not relevant, her statement genuine.
Disposing a bail application filed by Tehelka founder Tarun Tejpal, arrested on the charge of sexually assaulting a junior colleague, a Goa sessions court has rejected the defence argument that the alleged act was consensual and not criminal since the victim was a “liberated, emancipated modern woman”.
In a 21-page order on January 15, sessions court judge Anuja Prabhudesai said the “victim’s statement is genuine”.
“The persona of the victim and her social strata are not relevant to decide the (bail application). Similarly, the fact that she is liberated, emancipated modern woman who demanded (a) written apology rather than suffering in silence are no grounds to believe that she was not traumatised or that the act was consensual or could be consensual. Even on merit, the character of the victim or the past conduct… or the alleged aftermath on the stormy evening would not be relevant for deciding the issue of consent,” the order stated.
The court examined CCTV footage, the emails and SMS messages between the victim and Tejpal, the statement of the victim, her boyfriend, journalists, and Tehelka colleagues in whom the victim confided immediately after the alleged incident.
The bail hearing was conducted in-camera partially.
According to the written order, senior counsel Amit Desai, representing Tejpal, argued that the “social background of the victim, her persona, sense of understanding and values are relevant factors in deciding the (bail) application”.
Stating that ingredients of IPC section 376 (rape) is not made out, the defence relied on Supreme Court observations in two cases where “the apex court has drawn distinction between the tradition-bound Indian woman and a woman from the western society”.
The order cites Desai’s arguments that the “victim is an educated emancipated woman who wanted the apology to be published on the letterhead of Tehelka . She cannot be compared to a girl from tradition-bound non-permissive society of India who would be extremely reluctant to make such revelation in fear of being shunned by the family or the society”.
Placing “this background” to allege “material discrepancy in the victim’s statement vis-a-vis CCTV footage, delay in lodging the complaint as well as subsequent conduct of the victim, more particularly her conversation with her friends”, the defence cited “suspicion about the genuineness of the allegations”.
Countering this argument, senior counsel and special prosecutor S D Lotlikar told the court that “societal strata and moral status of the victim are irrelevant, as the law does not give licence to any person to sexually abuse women even if they have liberal views on sex”.
The prosecution said material evidence indicated that Tejpal had not disputed the allegations levelled by the victim. Lotlikar said the victim stood by the allegation and had never said that the act was consensual.
The court noted in the order: “It is not possible at this stage either to examine the material meticulously and to look into the discrepancies, omissions, or contradictions, or to read in between the lines and find out as to whether the evidence is sufficient to infer guilt of the applicants or not. It is enough if sufficient grounds are shown to connect the applicants with the offence. As stated earlier, the statement of the victim indicates that she was sexually abused and that the act was not consensual. In terms of Section 114 A of the Indian Evidence Act, even at the stage of trial, the presumption would be that she did not consent. Hence, at this stage it cannot be presumed otherwise.”
NEWS Link:- http://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-others/tejpals-bail-plea-act-consensual-since-colleague-a-modern-woman/#.UuZvagI2-dk.blogger

Woman lodges rape plaint after 77-year-old doctor approaches cops

PUNE: A 77-year-old doctor from Sadashiv Peth was arrested on Thursday after his caretaker accused him of rape. The Vishrambaug police also arrested the caretaker and booked her accomplices for allegedly extorting Rs 3 lakh from the doctor and demanding Rs 25 lakh more for not lodging a complaint against him.
The doctor and the 23-year-old woman were produced in the court and were remanded in police custody till January 27.
Assistant commissioner of police (Vishrambaug division) Deepak Humbare said the doctor lives alone in his apartment in Sadashiv Peth. His son stays abroad while his daughter lives in Goa. The doctor had appointed the caretaker in March 2012.
Humbare said that on Wednesday the doctor approached the police and lodged a complaint against the caretaker and her two accomplices accusing them of extorting Rs 3 lakh from him. "The doctor said they were demanding more money for not lodging a police complaint against him," Humbare said.
Later, the caretaker also approached the police and lodged a complaint against the doctor accusing him of rape. "She alleged that the doctor had also indulged in unnatural sex with her," he said.
The doctor has been charged under sections 376 (rape) and 377 (unnatural offence) of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) while the caretaker has been charged under section 384 (extortion) of the IPC.
NEWS Link:- http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2014-01-24/pune/46561549_1_woman-lodges-caretaker-doctor

ये कैसी पत्नी, खुद ही हर दी पति की हत्या!

दिल्ली के मजनूं का टीला इलाके में रविवार सुबह एक युवक की संदिग्ध हालात में मौत हो गई। उसकी गर्दन पर रस्सी के निशान पाए गए हैं। मृतक के परिचितों ने उसकी पत्नी पर हत्या करने का आरोप लगाया है।

पुलिस के अनुसार मुश्ताक (25) पत्नी फातिमा के साथ अरुणा नगर में रहता था। फातिमा ने अपनी मकान मालकिन को बताया कि उसके पति की बीमारी की वजह से मौत हो गई है।

मकान मालकिन ने मुश्ताक के गले पर रस्सी से दबाए जाने का निशान देखा। उसने तुरंत इसकी जानकारी पुलिस को दी। मौके पर पहुंची पुलिस ने मुश्ताक के शव को कब्जे में कर उसकी पत्नी को पूछताछ के लिए हिरासत में ले लिया।

जांच में पता चला कि मूल रूप से मुजफ्फरपुर, बिहार निवासी मुश्ताक की फातिमा से दूसरी शादी हुई थी। दोनों ने लव मैरेज की थी। मुश्ताक के परिचितों ने आरोप लगाया कि मुश्ताक बिहार में रहने वाली अपनी पत्नी को गुजारा भत्ता भेजना चाहता था। लेकिन फातिमा इसका विरोध करती थी।

इसी बात को लेकर अक्सर दोनों के बीच झगड़ा होता था। उन लोगों ने आरोप लगाया कि फातिमा ने अपनी चुन्नी से उसका गला घोंट दिया है। हालांकि पुलिस का कहना है कि अभी यह कह पाना जल्दबाजी होगी कि मुश्ताक की हत्या की गई है। पुलिस ने पोस्टमार्टम रिपोर्ट आने के बाद ही मामला दर्ज करने की बात कही है।

NEWS Link:- http://www.amarujala.com/news/delhi-ncr/delhi-news-ncr/wife-killed-her-husband-2/

दो प्रेमियों के साथ मिलकर की सरपंच पति की हत्या

जैसलमेर।। शादी के रिश्ते में पति या पत्नी की किसी तीसरे से संबंध होने की खबर तो आपने खूब सुनी होंगी लेकिन जैसलमेर में एक ऐसी घटना सामने आई जिसने सभी को हैरान कर दिया। जैसलमेर के रामगढ़ थाना इलाके में पत्नी द्वारा अपने दो प्रमियों के साथ मिलकर पति की हत्या कर डालने का मामला प्रकाश में आया है। सरपंच पति जसवीर की लाश रविवार को नहर की 248 आर डी से मिली। पुलिस ने बताया है कि सरपंच जसवीर की हत्या को उसकी पत्नि नीरू ने अपने प्रेमी अश्विनी और नरेंद्र के सहयोग से अंजाम दिया और शव को नहर में फेंक दिया।

पत्नी के दो प्रेमियों की बात से पूरे इलाके के लोग हैरान हैं। पुलिस ने बताया कि राजस्थान और सिरसा (हरियाणा) पुलिस ने शव की पहचान मृतक के हाथ पर लिखे पत्नी (नीरू) के नाम से की। पुलिस ने नीरू से पूछताछ की है जिसमें उसने हत्या करने की बात कबूल कर ली है। पुलिस नीतू ओर उसके प्रेमी अश्विनी और नरेंद्र को गिरफ्तार कर पूछताछ कर रही है।

सूत्रों ने नीतू द्वारा पूछताछ में दी गई जानकारी के हवाले से बताया कि नीतू और उसके दोनों प्रेमियों ने 25 फरवरी को जसवीर को शराब में नशे की गोलियां मिला कर पिला दी थी। तीनों ने बाद में जसवीर का गला दबाकर हत्या करने के बाद शव को नहर में फेंक दिया।

NEWS Link:- 
http://navbharattimes.indiatimes.com/state/rajasthan/jaipur/women-killed-her-husband/articleshow/19041238.cms