Wednesday 15 October 2014

ATM Machine/Sperm Donor or a Loving "Father"

With the increasing divorce rate in India and with more women empowerment, many couples are parting their ways including the elderly ones. Amidst all the imbalance, kids are the sufferers who are left with an option to stay with Single parent and they are deprived of the love of the other parent. In most of the cases, the other parent who is left out is FATHER.

The question arises here is that Why ONLY a FATHER  is deprived of the love of his/her kid  or vice-a-versa. Is he an ATM Machine, who keeps on paying regular maintenance for his/her kid and is still not able to get and share the desired love with the kid. Is he a SPERM donor who donated the strongest Sperm and a kid is born out of the wedlock ?

The kid born out of the wedlock gets entitled to his Paternal property automatically and can claim it once he/she attains the required age prescribed in the law, But neither the grandparents nor the kid is allowed to meet each other during these years and both the parties are left to litigate among each other and fate is left in the hands of the Hon'ble court of Law.

I feel this is an INJUSTICE towards a Specific gender i.e. MEN where they are neither provided with the child custody nor with the visitation rights and still they keeps on paying maintenance and in the end the kid and the ex-wife can enjoy the property rights.

What a Loving father shall do in this country. If you feel this is an injustice, start fighting and create awareness, so as to change the law to Shared Parenting concept.

Whats your viewpoint on this ?