Sunday, 9 February 2014

‘Harassed’ men demand National Commission

LUCKNOW: Political parties are now faced with a unique demand - add "formation of a National Commission for Men in their manifestoes" or face the risk of yet another party, formed by men facing domestic violence, entering the fray.

This demand was raised by about 50 organisations and pressure groups - under the aegis of National Coalition of Men - who are asking political parties to promise to constitute this body to uphold rights of men and address issues pertaining to men, both at the national and state level. They have threatened that if political parties fail to do so, they will form a party and also contest elections.

Speaking to TOI on the sidelines of the release of its "Men-i-Festo", Amit Gupta, a facilitator, said, "By March this year, all formalities pertaining to the registration of the party would be completed in Delhi. WE have scheduled a meeting in Agra in April, in which the final call on contesting the 2014 Lok Sabha elections would be taken."

"Other non-negotiable demands include formation of a task force to follow up, investigate and bring the culprits to justice on men's suicide," he added.

There was also a demand to make domestic violence gender-neutral, so as to protect men against domestic violence and family disputes. "All family laws should be of civil in nature and men should be protected, male child to be given equal opportunity and rights and equal rights to men for child custody and visiting their children in case of family issues," said Gupta.

"More than 50% of men under trial, who are accused of minor crime, await bail, and the state should facilitate a mechanism for their freedom," Gupta added.

When asked to reason the need for establishing the National Commission for Men, Gupta was of the view that 51% of India's population consists of men, and it is 80% of men are taxpayers, whose hard earned money is being used for the upliftment of the society, and 90% of the politicians and lawmakers are men.

"However, despite significant contribution made by men, they are assumed guilty till proven innocent, especially when the complainant is a woman," Gupta said and added that more than six decades have passed, but no study on men's issues and right have been done so far. And as far as emotional strength is concerned, statistically men are weaker than women. The facilitator also made it amply clear that validation of men's problem(s) is not an invalidation of women's problem(s). He also criticised the National Women's Commission for doing virtually nothing in order to improve the condition of the women across India.

NEWS Link:- http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/lucknow/Harassed-men-demand-National-Commission/articleshow/30075711.cms

Friday, 7 February 2014

Woman seeks Rs 2 cr alimony

The problems of an NRI doctor, who failed to turn up in court for a divorce proceeding filed by his wife, just got compounded. His wife, also a doctor, has revised her claim for alimony from the original Rs 50 lakh to Rs 2 crore. Her advocate filed the revised figure before a family court in Bangalore on Wednesday. This is one of the highest amounts claimed as alimony in court. 

The couple had married in May 2010. It was a second marriage for them both. He was working in the US and she went to live with him there after marriage. 

She returned to India in December 2010. In 2011, she filed a complaint with the Vanita Sahayavani (women's helpline). In January 2012, the couple reached a compromise and he agreed to pay her Rs 11 lakh as permanent alimony. However, their uneasy relationship did not end there. She filed for divorce and a case of dowry harassment against him in January 2013, demanding Rs 50 lakh as alimony. 

All this while, he continued to live in the US. When the family court issued him notices, the husband did not attend but instead filed his reply through mail. The court granted divorce to her and asked him to pay Rs 25 lakh in alimony. 

After this, the husband applied for a stay in the High Court which asked him to deposit Rs 15 lakh first. He obliged. The HC remanded back the case to the family court to decide after hearing both the parties. The husband claimed in court that his salary is $8,000 per month and he cannot pay Rs 25 lakh. He also claimed that the marriage was never consummated because of her mental illness. She was hospitalised in the US and she had left for India to take rest but never returned. The wife on the other hand alleged that he had demanded dowry from her and subjected her to harassment. 

The case is now in the family court all over again. But on Wednesday, the husband was in for a surprise as the wife's advocate filed an interlocutory application demanding Rs 2 crore. The case was adjourned for further hearing by the IV Additional Family Court. 

NEWS Link:- 
http://www.bangaloremirror.com/bangalore/crime/Woman-seeks-Rs-2-cr-alimony/articleshow/29960077.cms

Woman suffers burn injuries, blames live-in partner

A woman suffered injuries when the cot she was sleeping on caught fire early this morning in Bhangel area of the district, police said. 

In her complaint, Lata has blamed her live-in partner Balram for the fire. 

She was rushed to a hospital where her condition was stated to be stable. 

According to police, Lata, a mother of two, was in a live-in relationship with Balram, a taxi driver. They were living in Baghel. 

Balram, however, claimed that he was not responsible for the fire and that the cot caught fire accidentally. 

Police said investigations were on and her neighbours and relatives too were being questioned.

NEWS Link:- http://www.business-standard.com/article/pti-stories/woman-suffers-burn-injuries-blames-live-in-partner-114020601515_1.html#.UvTtW2jbqpg.blogger

Divorce track becomes popular on fiction shows

According to many popular fiction shows on GECs, after the couples get married, the 'divorce' word is not uncommon. Shows today are more about marital conflicts and situations that led to the idea that a marriage might fail. Like the saas-bahu sagas, this is a popular track with GECs. Couples fall in love, get married and the track gets to a point where the couples decide to separate or divorce. It would be a situation where the divorce papers arrive or the couple separate for a few episodes, and only to reunite again if the TRPs demand that. Guess, the makers seem to find this whole separation or divorce track after a marriage creating drama and excitement for the viewers. Here we list the popular shows on GECs, where at some or the other point, all couples separate or head for divorce.

Ek Nanad Ki Khushiyon Ki Chaabi...meri Bhabhi
Esha Kansara, who plays the nanad suffers many misunderstandings with her husband in the show, because her sister-in-law Kanchi Kaul is treated badly by her mom's family. Tired of this, Esha Kaul's husband asks for divorce from her.

Iss Pyaar Ko kya Naam Doon - Ek Baar Phir
Avinash Sachdev and Shrenu Parikh, who play the lead couple in the show, want a divorce soon after the marriage, but the court asks them to stay with each other for six months. They will try to live together to sort out issues.

Balika Vadhu
Jagya (Shashank Vyas) and Anandi got married in childhood and he divorces her for another woman when he grows up to realise that he is not in love with Anandi. There is a divorce-like situation in Jagya's second marriage too. Even his current wife, Ganga (Sargun Mehta) is divorced from her previous husband.

Firangi Bahu
Camili (Sippora Zoutewelle) and Pranay (Rohit Bharadwaj) in Firangi Bahu will soon head for divorce. Since the bahu has not been accepted, several issues have cropped up and so the track will show them heading for divorce.

Bade Achhe Laggte Hain
The show did reach a point when Ram ( Ram Kapoor) wants to divorce Priya (Sakshi Tanwar) in the show and even after he marries her sister Ayesha, he divorces her again to remarry Priya in the show. The show is currently also having a track where the couple is not living together.

Diya Aur Baati hum
It also had a track where Suraj ( Anas Rashid) takes out the divorce paper and gives it to Sandhya (Deepika Singh) because there are misunderstandings that have led to Suraj believing that Sandhya has made her family members unhappy in the marriage.

Tumhari Pakhi
The show started with the lead actor wanting a divorce. Iqbal Khan was married as an infant 18 years back and so now that he has grown up, he wants a divorce from onscreen wife Shraddha Arya.

Beintehaa
Zain (Harshad Arora) and Aliya (Preetika Rao) are married to each other, but against their wishes. Aliya gets married to Zain only to keep her father happy. Soon after they get married, they tell each other that they don't want to be with each other. And the recent episodes focus on how Zain is unhappy and asks for a divorce from Aliya at the wedding reception party.

Saath Nibhaana Saathiya
In the show, both the couples Ahem (Mohammed Nazim) and Gopi (Devoleena Bhattacharya), and Rashi (Rucha Hasabnis) and Jigar ( Vishal Modi) are shown talking about divorce from each other due to misunderstandings.

Pyaar Ka Dard Hai Meetha Meetha Pyaara Pyaara
Aditya (Nakuul Mehta) and Pankhuri (Disha Parmar) are a happily married couple but even this show had a track where Nakuul tries to divorce Disha because he feels he can give her more safety and safeguard her interests.

Saraswatichandra
When Kumud (Jennifer Winget) is married to Pramad (Anshul Trivedi), a lot of drama is created before she finally decides to divorce him and go back to her mother's home.

NEWS Link:- http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/tv/news-interviews/Divorce-track-becomes-popular-on-fiction-shows/articleshow/29951560.cms

TDP MLA’s wife accuses husband of attempt to murder!

Vijayawada: TDP MLA of Kaikaluru in Krishna district, Jayamangala Venkata Ramana is in the news again for all the wrong reasons.

MLA’s wife Sunitha has complained to the police that her husband is threatening to kill her. 

Police had in the past filed two cases against Venkta Ramana that are related to domestic violence. Police had filed a case under Domestic Violence Act, section 498.

After the case came before the courts, cases were filed under two more sections subsequently. A case of attempt to murder under section 307 and another case of forcing his wife to sign on divorce papers under section 384 of Cr. PC. Were filed against the MLA.

The couples have approached a senior civil judge in 2012 with a prayer to issue divorce to them. Since then, counseling is being done to the couple. And in a subsequent hearing, Sunitha has said she does not want divorce.

But what has led her to approach police again, is now being investigated. 

NEWS Link:- http://www.andhraheadlines.com/state/tdp_mlae28099s_wife_accuses_him_of_attempt_to_murder_-4-126773.html

Wife accuses TDP MLA of pressurising her to withdraw case

The Penamaluru Police under the Vijayawada Police Commissioner's office has registered a case against  from Kaikaluru, Jayamangala Venkataramana, upon a complaint from his wife, Sunitha. 

Venkataramana is already facing a dowry harassment case filed by his wife. 

As per her complaint, a few days ago her husband visited her at Tulasinagar near here where she is living with her close relatives, and threatened her with dire consequences if she did not withdraw the dowry case. 

Inspector Murali Krishna said case was registered against Venkataramana for criminal intimidation and other offences.

NEWS Link:- http://www.business-standard.com/article/pti-stories/wife-accuses-tdp-mla-of-pressurising-her-to-withdraw-case-114020601482_1.html#.UvPEYmlmHzo.blogger

Thursday, 6 February 2014

Woman Who Mocked Husband’s ‘Impotence’ Loses Divorce Case

The High Court has just granted divorce to a couple who were married 13 years ago, but lived together for just a week.
Usha had alleged her husband John (names changed) was impotent, but he had contended she was not interested in sex. She allegedly used to mock him about his “impotence” at their work place. John finally requested the High Court to appoint a medical expert to test his potency to prove her wrong.
John (47) and Usha (50), both Christians, were married on May 5, 2001, in Tumkur. John was a library assistant and Usha an office assistant, and continue to be employed in the same institution.
Usha insisted John marry her, but he was not willing. But, she allegedly took the help of the Tumkur police and the marriage was solemnised.
The court observed, “The marriage was not consummated on account of the non-cooperation of the wife. Later the husband left ... home and (was) residing separately.”
When John filed for divorce, Usha contested the case. She contended he was impotent, and sought the appointment of a medical expert to confirm his inability to perform his “marital obligations”. The family court ruled in her favour, and dismissed John’s petition on the grounds that he had failed to prove her cruelty.
John then filed a petition in the High Court. He urged the court to allow her appeal and test his potency.
The court said the wife’s contention that she was still willing to live with him despite hisimpotence could not be believed.
If the case for divorce is not considered, it would amount to harassment of both parties, the court concluded. “We are of the view that ends of justice would be met if the marriage is dissolved,” the court said.
Since Usha and John earn similar salaries, she is also not entitled to any permanent alimony, the court ruled.
NEWS Link:- http://www.newindianexpress.com/cities/bangalore/Woman-Who-Mocked-Husband%E2%80%99s-%E2%80%98Impotence%E2%80%99-Loses-Divorce-Case/2014/02/06/article2041084.ece?utm_content=buffer6acbb&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer#.UvOyW2KSzge